18-19-20-21
Milestone
Test
18th MILESTONE TEST
Q1. What does our self-concept include?
a) Self-less, self-concept, and self-consciousness
b) Self-esteem, self-concept, and self-awareness
c) Self-awareness, self-identity, and self-sacrifice
d) Self-love, self-fulfillment, and self-identity
Q2. According to the text, what makes our self-concept unbreakable?
a) The belief in "I am me"
b) The pursuit of self-love
c) Achieving true love
d) Having no expectations from others
Q3. What would be possible if we could exchange minds and bodies?
a) Freedom from the ego-bubble
b) Awakening of our energy
c) Approaching the essence of true love
d) All of the above
Q4. In the context of self-love, why do we "fall in love"?
a) To fulfill another’s needs
b) To meet our own needs
c) To experience Agape love
d) To pursue true love
Q5. When a partner no longer meets our needs, what often happens?
a) We redefine love
b) We deepen our self-love
c) We seek new sources
d) We achieve true love
Q6. What is the “illusion of love” according to the text?
a) Love without any expectations
b) Love based on self-gratification
c) True love without conditions
d) Love without any needs
Q7. What is "invested self-love" often mistaken for?
a) True love
b) Self-concept
c) Ego-bubble
d) Basic self-care
Q8. What does Agape, the highest form of love, involve?
a) Judgment and nurturing
b) Unconditional giving, even in destructive situations
c) Self-gratification
d) Meeting personal needs first
Q9. Why is true love described as "nearly impossible to achieve"?
a) Because it involves forgiving
b) Because it requires no judgment or opinion
c) Because it is the same as self-love
d) Because it depends on our ego
Q10. What often happens to love when a partner stops meeting our expectations?
a) The love story fades
b) We fall deeper in love
c) We stop self-love
d) The bond grows stronger
Q11. According to the text, what does "any form of giving" translate to?
a) Unconditional love
b) Self-sacrifice
c) Self-reward
d) Altruism
Q12. What is the purpose of creating a platform between two self-loving individuals?
a) To achieve true love unconditionally
b) To achieve for Agape love in its purest form
c) To establish an ideal, love connection between two self-loving individuals
d) To avoid self-love
Q13. What is the meaning of Agape in Greek?
a) Self-concept
b) Eternal love
c) The highest level of love
d) Compassion
Q14. Why might we feel compelled to give fully, even in a sacrificial way?
a) To gain unconditional love
b) To avoid guilt, pain, or inner sorrow
c) To prove our commitment
d) To fulfill the partner’s needs
Q15. According to the text, how does love often reflect our relationships?
a) Through selflessness and sacrifice
b) By meeting others' expectations
c) By mirroring our own needs and fears
d) Through pure emotional connection
Q16. What's the BEA HERO’s answer to the question "What happens every day?"
a) Every day is my lucky day.
b) Every day we live to the fullest.
c) Every day we get better and better every day.
d) Every day is a gift.
Correct answers: 1-b, 2-a, 3-d, 4-b, 5-c, 6-b, 7-a, 8-b, 9-b, 10-a, 11-c, 12-c, 13-c, 14-b, 15-b. 16-c
19th MILESTONE TEST
Q1. In the "Love Radio" analogy, what does the radio represent in a relationship?
a) The love signal itself
b) The physical platform or instrument that receives the love signal
c) The emotional bond between partners
d) The type of music each person enjoys
Q2. What is essential for a satisfying love experience in the "Love Radio" analogy?
a) A strong love signal only
b) A great physical appearance
c) An updated and well-tuned loving platform
d) A variety of musical preferences
Q3. According to the text, what is the "loving platform" in a relationship?
a) The love signal itself
b) The radio or instrument that receives the love signal
c) The emotional attachment between partners
d) The physical appearance of each partner
Q4. What is suggested to ensure a happy, lasting relationship?
a) Changing partners frequently
b) Creating a platform where self-lovers can perform their relationship
c) Ignoring the love signal entirely
d) Focusing solely on external appearance
Q.5 What does “The Antenna” represent in the Five Love Radio Components?
a) The need for both people to be free
b) The importance of decoding love signals
c) Honoring romantic needs
d) Understanding each other's language
Q.6 What does “The Tuner” encourage in a loving relationship?
a) Allowing one partner to take control
b) Avoiding a sense of ownership over your partner
c) Focusing on relationship languages
d) Amplifying romantic needs
Q7. What is the primary outcome of freedom in a relationship?
a) It creates opportunities for control
b) It allows for better time management
c) It opens the path for deeper respect and understanding
d) All of the above
Q8. What is necessary for freedom to work effectively in a relationship?
a) One partner should lead the relationship
b) Freedom must be equally balanced between partners
c) Both partners should avoid expressing personal opinions
d) Only one partner should have freedom of thought
Q9. What does it mean to accept each other's elements in a relationship?
a) Partners should only accept each other’s strengths
b) Acceptance is crucial, even when things don’t make complete sense
c) Acceptance should only happen if there’s no need for improvement
d) Partners should avoid providing any feedback
Q10. What does the text suggest about the phrase "my girlfriend" or "my husband"?
a) It implies healthy exclusivity
b) It should be approached with caution to avoid feelings of ownership
c) It’s essential for a strong relationship
d) It creates a secure relationship
Q11. What does the "tuner" component encourage partners to do?
a) Change each other’s unique qualities
b) Set restrictions to improve connection
c) Focus on understanding and appreciating each other's individuality
d) Compete for control within the relationship
Q12. What is the main purpose of the "don’t fall for ownership" principle?
a) To establish control over each other
b) To create a single, shared frequency between partners without distortion
c) To prevent partners from making independent choices
d) To eliminate individuality in the relationship
Q13. What can a "who is the boss" dynamic lead to in a relationship?
a) A healthy and balanced partnership
b) A toxic and destructive experience
c) Improved mutual respect
d) Greater individual freedom
Correct answers: 1-b, 2-c, 3-b, 4-b, 5-a, 6-b, 7-c, 8-b, 9-b, 10-b, 11-c, 12-b, 13-b
20th MILESTONE TEST
Q1. What are romantic needs in a monogamous relationship?
a) Activities like hobbies and dining out
b) Holding hands, kissing, cuddling, and physical closeness
c) Emotional support and leaning on a friend’s shoulder
d) Sharing movie nights with trusted friends
Q2. How should romantic needs be fulfilled in a monogamous relationship?
a) By prioritizing one’s own preferences over the partner's
b) With gratitude, without ego, arrogance, or self-centeredness
c) By delaying actions until it's convenient
d) By replacing romantic needs with shared activities like dining out
Q3. What analogy describes the role of fulfilling romantic needs in a relationship?
a) Romantic needs are like trusted friends
b) An amplifier strengthening a radio signal
c) A cozy movie night enhancing relaxation
d) A hobby that builds personal growth
Q4. What does the ripple effect analogy in a water cave represent?
a) The natural flow of emotions in a relationship
b) Feelings of dissatisfaction and unresolved needs amplifying over time
c) The inevitability of conflict in all relationships
d) A partner's ability to control their emotions independently
Q5. What are some of the ripple effects of ignoring our partner romantic needs?
a) The partner learns that their needs are less important than yours
b) The partner starts converting desires into begging experiences
c) Expectations turn into disappointments
d) All of the above
Q6. What ultimately one the possible effect of ignoring a partner's romantic needs?
a) The partner ends relationship
b) The partner seeks a lover
c) The partner hits depression
d) All of the above
Q7. Why is resolving issues in loving relationships or past traumas described as a priority?
a) Because it helps improve emotional well-being and restores desire
b) Because it enhances financial stability in the relationship
c) Because it prevents partners from feeling distant or detached
d) Because it boosts social status and external perceptions
Q8. What should you do if you cannot immediately fulfill your partner's romantic need?
a) Ignore it and move on
b) Make a promise to satisfy it later
c) Apologize without offering a solution
d) Wait until you feel like it
Q9. What is the consequence of failing to keep a promise made to a partner?
a) It strengthens the trust in the relationship
b) It builds excitement for future promises
c) It leads to a lack of trust and the collapse of the loving platform
d) It has no effect on the relationship
Q10. What does fulfilling a partner’s romantic needs communicate?
a) That their expectations are met
b) That their needs are respected and will be satisfied
c) That their needs are as important as your own
d) All of the above
Q11. According to the BEA HERO’s Code “what is disappointment”?
a) A sense of unfulfillment
b) A negative emotional response
c) Result of unmet needs
d) A date with expectation
Correct answers: 1-b, 2-b, 3-b, 4-b, 5-d, 6-d, 7-a, 8-b, 9-c, 10-d, 11-d
21st MILESTONE TEST
Q1. What is the definition of truthfulness as described in this book?
a) The ability to understand another person's feelings
b) The skill of persuading others with charisma
c) Being honest, genuine, and consistent with reality
d) A natural trait that all humans are born with
Q2. How is truthfulness shaped?
a) By reading books and studying philosophy
b) Through parental guidance and life experiences
c) By practicing meditation and mindfulness regularly
d) Through financial stability and independence
Q3. What metaphor is used to describe how truthfulness refines relationships?
a) A mirror reflecting light
b) A tree growing strong roots
c) A radio decoder clarifying a signal
d) A compass pointing north
Q4. What is an example of emotional openness in a relationship?
a) Avoiding difficult topics to maintain harmony
b) Honestly sharing feelings, fears, and desires
c) Expecting your partner to guess your emotions
d) Only expressing positive emotions to your partner
Q5. How can communication be considered transparent in daily interactions?
a) By focusing only on trivial matters
b) By discussing needs, expectations, and boundaries openly
c) By avoiding difficult conversations to prevent conflict
d) By sharing only what you believe your partner wants to hear
Q6. Which action demonstrates respect for your partner’s privacy?
a) Sharing their passwords with mutual friends
b) Checking their phone messages without permission
c) Allowing private conversations with friends
d) Monitoring their social media activity regularly
Q7. According to the text, what is the minimum standard for truthfulness in a healthy relationship?
a) 1-star: Just starting the process
b) 3-star: Striving for improvement
c) 4-star: Mostly truthful, with minor exceptions
d) 5-star: Complete and consistent honesty
Q8. What happens when truthfulness is compromised in a relationship?
a) Trust is strengthened over time
b) Doubt and fear begin to take root
c) Communication becomes more open
d) The relationship becomes more stable
Q9. Why doesn’t telling the truth alone qualify as trustworthiness?
a) Because honesty is not valued in relationships
b) Because truth-telling does not demonstrate responsibility or care in actions
c) Because truth-telling leads to arguments and misunderstandings
d) Because truth-telling is a temporary quality
Q10. What distinguishes trustworthiness from truthfulness?
a) Trustworthiness is about recognizing truth instantly, while truthfulness is earned over time
b) Trustworthiness requires consistent responsibility and care, while truthfulness focuses on honesty in the moment
c) Trustworthiness involves rule-following, while truthfulness requires communication
d) Trustworthiness applies only to personal relationships, while truthfulness applies to professional settings
Q11. What demonstrates reliability in relationships or work?
a) Frequently adjusting plans based on convenience
b) Consistently following through on promises and commitments
c) Making promises but rarely delivering on them
d) Avoiding commitments to prevent accountability
Q12. How is fairness reflected in behavior?
a) Treating some people preferentially over others
b) Ignoring conflicts to avoid appearing biased
c) Treating others with impartiality and equity
d) Making decisions based solely on personal gain
Q.13 What is a practical tip for improving punctuality?
a) Setting your watch 10 minutes ahead
b) Waiting until the last moment to leave for meetings
c) Avoiding time management strategies altogether
d) Ignoring delays and apologizing later
Q14. How should you handle tough conversations?
a) Speak calmly and remain composed
b) Raise your voice to emphasize your point
c) Avoid addressing difficult topics altogether
d) Use vague language to deflect questions
Q15. What demonstrates good personal responsibility?
a) Borrowing money without clear repayment terms
b) Paying debts on time and sticking to agreements
c) Avoiding responsibilities that involve finances
d) Ignoring deadlines for repayments
Correct answers: 1-c, 2-b, 3-c, 4-b, 5-b, 6-c, 7-d, 8-b, 9-b, 10-b, 11-b, 12-c, 13-a, 14-a, 15-b
